Sex of Humour??
Some people firmly state that sense of humour and sex are totally self-excludable things, that they cannot coexist. Others say he who laughs best laughs in bed... Let's see who's right and who's wrong in this oh so delicate question through two vividly illustrated opinions on the subject.
The first one is when you come back from work, slightly tired but still in a good mood and see that your man has cooked great romantic dinner for you. You eat light food and have champagne in candlelight, talk about silly things, smile at each other. Soft music is playing, you and your man are finishing your champagne, and you already know that the night is going to be very successful...
Now imagine another situation. You come back from work, slightly worn out but still in good mood, nobody seems to be able to spoil it because you know that your man has cooked great romantic dinner for you. You are eagerly looking forward to further romantic things, - the ones that will happen after dinner (after dark!) that is; ah isn't it good to have such a loving partner... You turn the key, enter your apartment and see your man wearing strange garments... To be more precise, he's wearing nothing but his boxers, a T-shirt and...horns on his head. It's not that the fact he is horny is so shocking to you, it's just that you have expected something else. You patiently inquire what celestial occasion might have made him put on such an interesting festive costume. He grabs you with both hands instead of answering and while carrying you to the bedroom shouts out loud that since he has spoiled romantic dinner (no wonder the smell in your apartment was that strange) he decided to prepare something even more special for you! (What could be more special than wearing horns indeed?) 'Today is April Fool's Day, Darling, why not have a blast after a working day, stop gazing that strangely at my horns and say they are charming!' You will sure force your professional smile and say that they are charming and he is charming and that you are all for having a blast (looks like it doesn't imply having some romantic fun you counted on...) but then your man suddenly utters in an awkward animal voice: 'Come here, my yellow chicken, my lovely little cow, I'm so very horny for you can't you see!!!' And here's the moment where you can totally lose the remnants of your sense of humour for that day.
Why do you think it may happen? What's so anti-sexy in this situation, why can't two people who are crazy about each other and who completely trust each other have any kind of fun and enjoy it? Why does sense of humour sometimes stand in their way?
The answer is simple – because sense of humour is as tasty and healthy as for instance chocolate ('hormone of happiness', the fuel for your brain etc.). However, if you eat too much chocolate, you will most likely feel sick. The same situation is with joking in the intimate sphere. It's not that it's bad, no, but you only can do it if you know that it will not spoil the right mood of your partner and i.e. yours too. There always should be sense of measure in everything, sense of humour is not an exception. Neither is emotion in motion, though the latter point is disputable.......